Mother's Day for Left-behind Children: The Most Familiar "Stranger"

"Mother, have you been working lately? Take care of yourself. Today is Mother's Day. I missed you very much." On the morning of the 8th, 9-year-old Wei Yanyan, a left-over child of the 9-year-old, sent a message to his mother thousands of miles away. Express feelings of love.

With the rapid development of China's social economy, more and more rural migrant workers have entered the city to seek a new life. At the same time, they have also created a special group of left-behind children. According to a report released by the All-China Women's Federation in 2016, there are more than 60 million left-behind children in rural China. In Shaanxi, as of 2016, this figure has reached 1.3 million.

Last summer vacation, Wei Yanyan’s parents left the small mountain village of Shangnan County in Shaanxi to work in Fujian. Because they couldn’t bring their daughter around, Wei Yanyan had to stay with her grandparents.

Wei Yanyan’s grandmother Chao Qin told the China News Agency reporter that because of the low number of holidays, the expenditure on the back and forth was relatively high. The son and daughter-in-law rarely returned home and they did not return this year’s Spring Festival. Children only have occasional chats with their parents through mobile phones on weekdays.

"Was told me that Mother's Day must send my mother a blessing." Zhao Qin said that he had heard of "Mother's Day" for the first time. A few days ago, Wei Yanyan’s head teacher arranged a special homework assignment for the students and helped her mother to do something on Mother's Day. This made Wei Yanyan frustrated for several days.

Zhao Qin said that children usually cannot talk to their parents and can only be expressed in the diary. In her diary, I often write about food that my mother wants to eat after school and can listen to my father telling stories to myself. "As the old saying goes, poor parents in the world, but children are not worried about their parents?"

For Yu Xiaohua, a 12-year-old boy from Gaoling County in Xi’an, his mother is the “stranger” most familiar with photos and memories. He and his parents meet only a handful of times each year. Parents also use material satisfaction to compensate their sons.

Yu Xiaohua wrote in the WeChat message to his mother: "I want a basketball. You promised me that I will be rewarded with the top three in the class. I have been working hard. If this year's summer vacations are successful, we must honor my promise!"

With the help of Yan, he also sent the dried sweetpotato in his hometown to Chongqing as a Mother's Day gift.

The old man of Xiao Hua’s Bai Guigui said that when Xiao Hua was 7 years old, her parents went out to work because of lack of security and communication, and her introverted personality. Her thoughts were always in my heart. “Children immediately enter adolescence. Without parents’ guidance, it is very easy to get used to the bad habits. Afterwards, I can’t see if I can receive my parents’ advice.”

The reporter learned from the interview that most of the left-behind children are prone to psychological problems due to lack of communication with their parents. Many places have tried to ease the problem by finding love volunteers to act as “deputy mothers” and creating “homes for left-behind children”. However, some experts said that the problem of left-behind children still needs to be resolved through development.

Fu Xiopeng, director of the Shaanxi Province Labor Exchange Guidance Center, said that counties with more left-behind children would be encouraged to establish a demonstration park for migrant workers to return to their hometowns, and to guide left-behind children's family laborers to enter the park and start employment. We will use the family labor force of left-behind children as an aid recipient and place non-profit jobs.

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